Why We're Here: Michael Haynes
By MADD | June 4, 2012| 8 Comments | Filed in: Drunk Driving , Victim Services , Victim Stories

Michael Haynes was a loving husband, an amazing father, son, brother, uncle and a friend to so many.  He loved spending time with his family, playing with his children and his Xbox.  Michael cared deeply for serving and protecting others, which greatly influenced his life and career choices.

Michael joined the United States Army after the attacks on the World Trade Center on September 11th and served his country with pride, courage, honor and integrity in Iraq.  After he was honorably discharged, Michael joined the Montana Highway Patrol in 2006 to make the roads safe for his family, friends and fellow Montana residents—and he was great at his job. In his three years on the Highway Patrol, Michael Haynes received high marks from his supervisors, and was an aggressive enforcer of DUI laws.

On March 23, 2009, Michael was on-duty when a drunk driver traveling in the wrong lane crashed head on into his patrol car.  Michael died from his injuries four days later, leaving behind his wife, Tawny, and two young children.

Following Michael’s death, legislators and other state officials agreed that something needed to be done about the drunk driving issue in Montana and try to remedy their stance as one of the worst drunk driving states in the country.

Michael’s wife Tawny has taken over his passion to get drunk drivers off the road and has become an outspoken advocate for stricter drunk driving measures.  She has worked with legislative committees to examine the effectiveness of Montana’s laws and to see how they can be improved, and was also heavily involved in the passing of the 24/7 Sobriety Program Act for repeat offenders.  Since the drunk driver that killed Michael was reportedly served 13 drinks before he got in his car to drive home, Tawny is also an advocate for stiffer over-serving law and has worked on mandatory alcohol training for servers.

"I want to do the right thing," she said. "I want his death to mean something; I want some good to come out of this."

   

 

 

 

   

Comments

Submitted by shelli458 at 01:10 AM on October 4, 2012
whew! I have fought for so many years to never drink again..And had some success, some painful stuff..today though I am so grateful to be sober! feeling sad,missing my mom and dad them I read some of these articles??? wow! God Bless you! I for one quit driving 6 years ago. I neither drive drunk or want to have any desire.Thank God I didnt kill anyone years ago,I would not have been able to live with it.
Submitted by Cece at 12:38 PM on June 7, 2012
The way his story ends is heartbreaking. I am so proud of his wife for the drive to continue his dream. I wish her courage, strenghth, and love. His children may not physically have their daddy but they have a gurdian angel with them at all times.
Submitted by Terri at 10:35 PM on June 6, 2012
Last week, my younger son graduated from high school. Taking out my own cap and gown after packing it up in 1985, I found your pin! I hadn't seen it in 27 years :) We had lost a classmate 2 weeks before graduation, and everyone was given a pin to remember. Proudly, my son pinned it to his own gown and wore it during the commencement ceremonies. Thank you, everyone for all you do to keep our kids aware and safe. You are amazing!
Submitted by Kiona2 at 01:48 PM on June 6, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about this loss. Too many people are put at risk everyday because of drunk driving. It's only by the grace of God that I never hurt anyone on the road, and I'm now 13 1/2 years sober. I can't stress enough the dangers of drinking and driving. My Higher Power has given me a second chance at life, and I for one, share as much as I can, that WE ARE ALL JUST 1 DRINK AWAY FROM HURTING OR KILLING SOMEONE. Please, as summer is here, let's ALL be responsible; DO NOT GET BEHIND THE WHEEL IF YOU'VE BEEN DRINKING. A little inconvenience now is worth what will await you later. Please be/stay safe out there on the roads this summer.....from a GRATEFUL recovering alcoholic.
Submitted by CAROL at 12:22 PM on June 6, 2012
IF A D.D. COULD PAY FOR ONE OR TWENTY DRINKS, THEY COULD PAY FOR THE COST OF A LOST LOVE ONE. BEING PUT IN JAIL OR GO TO COURT OR EVEN HAVING THE LETTLERS "DUI" NEXT TO THERE NAME, IS NOT ENOUGH FOR THEM TO SEEK HELP TO STOP DRINKING.
Submitted by ChuckBelgrade at 09:47 AM on June 6, 2012
A very touching unfortunate story. The good to come from this is Tawny's determination to have her husband's memory mean as much as possible in making the Montana and federal highway system safer especially considering the influence of alcohol on driving safety. The state and nation must get TOUGH, judges pay attention not just fines and jail, but hours of public service and mandatory education of offenders, on DUI/DWI. More than one offense is a big RED FLAG.
Submitted by Janet at 05:20 PM on June 5, 2012
Sooo very proud of the work Tawny and her mom, Laurie, are doing to stop the insanity of drunk drivers who carelessly take the lives of innocent individuals, destroying families and breaking hearts.
Submitted by laurieismadd at 05:41 PM on June 4, 2012
I want to thank MADD National for chosing Michael's story for it's June 2012 Father's Day issue. He was an awesome son-in-law and an amazing man. I will love and miss him always. Thank you.

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