Why We’re Here: David West
By MADD | September 4, 2012| 8 Comments | Filed in: Drugged Driving , Victim Services , Victim Stories

 
David West

David West was 12 years old when his family moved from California to the small rural town of Glide, Oregon. Most kids would despise being uprooted from everything they know to settle in the country, miles away from the nearest town, but not David.  David fell in love with the county—hunting, fishing, mudding in his truck. He loved the outdoors. David grew up to become an ironworker.  It was a physically demanding job, but David loved it and was proud of his work.  He married his high school sweetheart, Nikki, and together they had two children.

On January 14, 2006, his sister’s birthday, David was killed in a drunk driving crash at age 29.

After David’s death, Beth’s sister contacted MADD and was provided with victim support materials, which Beth said she found very helpful. She was also assigned a victim advocate—Ann Pratt, whose son was killed in a drunk driving crash.  Among other things, Ann helped the West family through the taxing legal process, and Beth credits Ann for “getting their family to where they are today.” When walking into court for the first day of the trial Beth lost it, saying “I can’t do this.” But Ann was there and told her “Yes you can.”  Beth says she can’t thank Ann enough for everything she has done for her and her family.

 
Jacob, Dan, David and Lorri West

Since David’s death, the family has become dedicated to putting an end to senseless drunk driving deaths. Each November, they put on a community awareness event in correlation with MADD’s Tie One On For Safety holiday initiative. Local and state police departments participate in the event and bring their mobile DUI unit and impairment goggles to help the public learn more about the dangers of drunk driving.  The event continues to grow each year, and in recent years more than 300 people have attended. David’s brother Dan, a MADD volunteer, has taken lead for this and several other events each year to help raise awareness in the community, in honor of his brother.

Beth, David’s mother, volunteers as a MADD court monitor and victim advocate,  As a court monitor, Beth finds comfort in knowing that her presence can help make an difference.  She says, “Oregon has good drunk driving laws, they just need to be enforced.”  Beth became a victim advocate because she wanted to be there for other victim/survivors and their families, like her victim advocate was for her, especially during the trial.  She says, “trial can be an extremely difficult experience.  Many drunk driving victim/survivors have never been to court before and have no concept of the criminal justice system.  It’s important for victims to know their rights, and that’s what I hope to assist with as a victim advocate.”

On the first day of a trial as a victim advocate, the victim Beth accompanied to court said “I can’t do this.”  And just as her advocate had said to her years before, Beth told her, “Yes you can.”

The West family is currently going through a post-conviction appeals process, and through sharing her story, Beth hopes that she can explain to people how stressful and emotional the appeal process can be.  Her advice to others is to learn not to take the criminal justice outcome personally and to accept it as part of the system.  Learning to do this helped her to manage her own anguish and remain focused on making a long-term difference for others.

 The West Family
 

 


   

Comments

Submitted by Minibytes at 01:14 PM on October 5, 2012
Beth- Drunk driving should be prevented! I think its great what you are doing! Keep it up!
Submitted by Boo at 10:47 AM on October 3, 2012
@GRANDMA- they only gave that person 3 years? if your lawyer isn't doing well with your case,try another one. that isn't right.
Submitted by grandma at 02:16 PM on September 26, 2012
i am trying to get a stiffer sentence for drunk drivers and legaslator dont want to answer my calls i lost my 15 yr old grandson a yr ago and the drunk driver got 3 yrs probation .
Submitted by Bob at 09:53 AM on September 10, 2012
Just a little history, December 30, 1974, Lake Isabella, CA our daughter Julie, age 16, was killed in a DUI crash. She was in a car with an older man and his wife who were also dead at the scene. Our daughters friend survived with major trauma. The DUI driver and passenger had very minor injuries and he served less than 30 days in jail. Our daughter was autopsied and a toxicolgy test was taken but the driver of the other car did not undergo BA or urine tests. I only point this out to all of you that might read this, that things have changed, although not enough, I believe for the better as far as awareness is concerned. As all of you know, victims are given a life sentence in these kinds of cases with no chance for "appeals." For those of you who are going through the legal morass my heart goes out to you but remember "you can't lose if you don't give up." Bob and Joan
Submitted by DONNA at 07:48 PM on September 7, 2012
Beth- You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. My 21 yr. old Beautiful niece, MEAGAN RAE WOOD, was killed by a drunk driver on Feb. 10 2007. it doesn't get any easier or better, if anything it gets worse. You miss them more and more with each passing day. You only learn to get by. Your parents suffer the worse, but it effects every member of a family who loved them. May GOD Bless you and your family and may you all find Peace and Comfort.
Submitted by Betty at 07:52 PM on September 5, 2012
Good for you, Beth! I love to see when one can make a difference. I lost two boys to drunk drivers in two separate crashes, four years apart, almost to the day. When I tell my story, I hope people at least think. Living in Florida, I know that lightning can and does strike twice.
Submitted by Minimin at 02:42 PM on September 5, 2012
This will be appeal number three for this family, good idea not to take it personal. Easier said then done I am sure!
Submitted by Jeff G at 01:32 PM on September 5, 2012
Beth - Keep strong and know you are doing the right thing ! Our family has also been victimized by a 32yr drunk driver and a lawyer to boot, the legal system is HORRIBLE and supports the criminals and ignores the victims ! Life is not fair and despite the wonderful efforts of MADD we still have a long long long way to go. Our civil case is just getting started and the anger with our legal system just gets worse with each passing week. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family ! DONT GIVE UP ! Jeff and Deb

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