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Why We're Here: Stacey Heizer
By MADD | September 3, 2013 | Filed in: Drunk Driving , Victim Services , Victim Stories , Volunteers

Stacey preparing to speak at a MADD event

Stacey Heizer just began her senior year of high school in the fall of 2000. She was an honor student, a varsity tennis player, and the girl at school that everyone wanted to be around.

But on September 1st, just days before her 17th birthday, Stacey was driving with friends when a drunk driver crossed the center lane and crashed into Stacey’s car.  Stacey was pinned, and the extreme impact from the crash lodged the orthodontic retainer she was wearing into the back of her throat.  Fortunately, one of Stacey’s friends was able to clear her airway and support Stacey until the rescue team arrived. Without this friend's lifesaving actions, the outcome likely would have been completely different for Stacey.

Emergency responders pried Stacey out of the car with the Jaws of Life, and she was HALO-flighted to the hospital where doctors prepared her family for the worst, including the possibility that she might never come out of the coma.

Stacey remained in a coma for nearly three months, but slowly she started responding. On Thanksgiving Day, she was able to say, “Mom, I love you.”

Thirteen years after the crash, Stacey is still struggling with her injuries. She has a Traumatic Brain Injury that causes double vision, balance problems, short term memory loss, tremor in her hands and trouble with concentration. She also struggles with depression due to her constant pain, as well as the frustration of not being able to live a “normal” life.

Stacey spends her days doing physical rehab, speech rehab and cognitive therapy; but when she is not working on her rehabilitation, she is volunteering with MADD. 

Stacey at press conference for TxDOT's Faces of Drunk Driving Campaign

Among her many other activities to help prevent drunk driving, Stacey has given numerous speeches and presentations with MADD over the last several years, and she recently attended the MADD’s Victim Advocate Training Institute.  She participates with TxDOT in their anti-drinking and driving campaigns and really enjoys speaking to law enforcement about their duty to keep drunk drivers off our streets.  She has been sought after by every agency in the county and has been called the highlight of DWI training programs.

Stacey is determined to find a job that she can do every day to make her life even more meaningful. But until that day comes, Stacey says she will continue to volunteer with MADD, doing speaking engagements, presentations and talking to both youth and adults about underage drinking and substance impaired driving.

Later this this month at the MADD Central Texas Law Enforcement luncheon, Stacey will be honored for her efforts to help inform and teach the officers who protect our streets.

We are so thankful to have such a wonderful volunteer like Stacey, who can have such a significant impact on others by sharing her story.  If you are interested in sharing your story, click here to contact your local office.

Stacey's car the night of the crash


Why We're Here: Jamie Maier
By MADD | July 31, 2013 | Filed in: Victim Stories

On August 17, 2002, 16-year-old Jamie Maier was backing out of a friend’s driveway when a drunk driver crashed into the passenger side of her car.  The drunk driver was traveling more than 100 mph in a 30 mph zone, with a blood alcohol concentration of .12 percent.   The impact instantly killed both Jamie and her friend who was riding with her.

Jamie’s mother, Roseanne, describes her daughter as “a beautiful, kind and smart girl who always encouraged her friends to be good and safe.”  In fact, the night of prom she insisted that her boyfriend call his mom for a ride because the people they came with had been drinking.

After Jamie was killed, Rosanne was put in touch with her local MADD victim advocate, who helped the family during the trial.   The drunk driver was convicted of two counts of manslaughter and sentenced to 30 years and because he had multiple DUIs, he will have to serve 85% of his sentence. 

Roseanne and Jamie

After the trial was over, Roseanne began speaking about Jamie and sharing her story.  Roseanne now speaks at schools, diversion counseling programs with teens and parents, DUI classes and at monthly MADD Victim Impact Panels®.

When Jamie was growing up, she always said she wanted to be famous.  Now, 11 years later, Rosanne has shared Jamie’s story and given her photo to more than 140,000 people in hopes of preventing a tragedy like this for other families, while inadvertently helping Jamie’s dream come true—to become famous.  

Jamie often shared her philosophy in life that “nobody promises you tomorrow, so be good today, and show the people you love, that you love them today.”

Each time Roseanne shares Jamie’s story, she ends her presentation with this statement:

“If you have love in your hearts, you won't take chances with your life...you will think about the people who love you and need you alive and not in prison.  Please remember Jamie's little philosophy in life."

Roseanne sharing Jamie's story

 


Visit Jamie’s tribute page to read more about her or make a donation in her honor.


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