Conversation Starters for Talking With Your Teen

1. Connect

  • “Let’s eat dinner together tonight.”
  • “How about helping me wash the car? It will be fun doing it together.”
  • “What’s bothering you? Did something happen at school today?”

2. Educate

  • “Alcohol is especially dangerous for young people, and here’s why….”
  • “I love you and want you to be safe, so you need to wait until you’re 21 to drink.”

3. Be a Role Model

  • “No thanks. I’ll drink tea with my dinner, I am driving.”

4. Encourage

  • “I see you put a lot of effort into this!”
  • “Thanks for putting away the groceries!”
  • “You brought the car home early. Good job!”

5. Monitor

  • “What are your plans for Saturday night?”
  • “Who will you be with?”
  • “How can I reach your friend’s parents?”

6. Enforce

  • “By missing curfew, you lost car privileges this week.”

See also Seven Tips for Connecting With Your Teen.

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